From Hangovers to High Sets: This Man Gave Up Partying and Helped Build a Volleyball Community
For most, a birthday is a time for reflection and celebration. For Arvie Dizon, a 36-year-old industry professional who works with celebrities and influencers, it was an opportunity to bring people together through a shared passion: volleyball. In place of the usual parties with celebrities and influencers that marked his 20s and early 30s, Dizon chose something more personal and meaningful—a mini volleyball tournament with the Beverly Volleyball Club, a community he helped build in Pampanga.
Building the Beverly Volleyball Club
The Beverly Volleyball Club was born out of weekly volleyball runs in Pampanga nearly two years ago. Comprised of professional workers, former athletes, and young varsity players from various universities, the club has become a hub for players of all skill levels.
“Our Saturdays are sacred,” Dizon shared. “From 3 p.m. to 11 p.m., we block that time for volleyball.”
This year, instead of spending P100,000 by throwing a lavish party at a club, Arvie decided to celebrate by hosting a one-day tournament. With a modest budget of ₱50,000—half of what he used to spend on extravagant parties—Dizon rented courts, provided meals for 40 players, and offered cash prizes for the top three teams. “It’s an advocacy for people who share the same love for the sport,” he said.
A Birthday Redefined

Why volleyball? For Dizon, it’s more than just a game—it’s a way to stay healthy, build discipline, and foster meaningful relationships.
“In my industry, I always felt the pressure to be on top of my game,” he admitted. “But volleyball gave me a space where I could be myself. I didn’t have to dress up extravagantly or prove anything to anyone. It’s for fun, but it also keeps me healthy.”
The tournament, which lasted from 2 p.m. to 10 p.m., brought together players from different walks of life. “We had varsity players from Holy Angel University and other schools in Pampanga. The level of competition was high, but the atmosphere was friendly,” he recalled.
Finding Love in the Community
Dizon’s journey into volleyball began during the pandemic, thanks to a friend’s invitation. What started as a casual hobby quickly turned into a passion. “My friend told me, ‘Once you fall in love with volleyball, you’ll crave it.’ And I did. I blocked off my Saturdays for volleyball, even asking to move work commitments when necessary.”
Through the sport, Dizon found a community that extended beyond the court. He started helping young players, buying them shoes and even connecting promising talents with university scouts. “There was this one kid in Pampanga who was so talented. I offered to market him for schools like La Salle and Ateneo,” he shared.
“A simple love can spark a lot of change.”
For Dizon, volleyball is more than just a pastime—it’s a vehicle for change. He hopes to see grassroots efforts flourish, where volleyball becomes as ingrained in communities as basketball. “If parents play volleyball and their kids see them, that love for the sport will be passed down. A simple love can spark a lot of change.”
His vision extends to national-level competitions for provincial players who may not have the means to participate in commercial leagues. “I want it to be authentic and grassroots. From there, we can build a pool of players who can represent the country.”
Looking back, Dizon’s experience with volleyball has taught him that it’s never too late to start. “I’m a late bloomer. I started playing at 34, but it’s never too late to love a sport and be good at it,” he said. Beyond physical health, Dizon emphasizes the mental benefits of sports. “Everyone would be less stressed and healthier if they realized how good sweating out is.”
As for his birthday tournament, Dizon’s biggest takeaway wasn’t the competition or the prizes—it was the sense of leadership and unity he cultivated. “It’s fulfilling to bring people together for something meaningful. It’s not just about volleyball; it’s about community.”
A Celebration Worth Repeating
For Dizon, the shift from partying to playing isn’t just a phase—it’s a lifestyle. “Volleyball is the new birthday party,” he said with a laugh. “You sweat, you feel tired, but it’s the right kind of tired. And when you experience that, you’ll keep coming back for more.”
Through volleyball, Dizon has found not only a healthier way to celebrate but also a way to give back. His story is proof that it’s never too late to start something new—and that love, in all its forms, can be found in the most unexpected places.
